Two People Sex Positions - The Butterfly
Along with having some advice about masturbation, I think it is good to also have some things to say about sexual positions. Now, this is a little more complicated because chances are there is a wide variety of people that could potentially read these posts and of that wide variety of people there's going to be variations in the way they can carry out certain positions and their anatomy may even prevent a practical way to do them. As such, I'm not going to try to claim that every couple on the planet will be able to do these positions and I'm not going to assume that every couple will be willing or that every couple has the anatomy to perform all those that I present. However, I do encourage that people ask questions on how to modify a sexual position to suit their needs or even make suggestions about how to solve individual problems that they might face in regards to these positions if they decide they need more information. Don't be shy!
From here on out I will likely often use various terms for the participants in sexual acts. However, some of the common terms I might use are going to help specify who is the one being penetrated and who is the one doing the penetrating. For the one being penetrated, I might say something like "the recipient," "the fuckee," or "the cum container" - most likely, though, I will use the term, "the recipient" because it sounds more professional. The term used for the person doing the penetrating will mirror those that I use for their partner. I will call them "the giver," "the fucker" or "the splooge factory," only time will tell which of those terms is the most professional, or if I decide to utilise some other creative jargon in the future. I will come up with other creative terms, if needed, when I decide to mention positions in multiples greater than two.
The position I want to talk about today is known as "the Butterfly." Now, I'm going to give a kind of twisted backstory to this sexual position because when I first heard of something called "the Butterfly" that involved my legs around someone else, it was actually an activity done on a swing in the environment of innocence and purity that can only be found amongst children. The activity wasn't at all sexual, but was more a way that children could learn to coordinate timing in order to operate a regular playground swing as they shared it. One child sat in the swing and slid back slightly farther than they normally would and leaned back as the other child sat in their lap facing them. The two children would then use the swing by shifting their weight in time with each other, moving their legs and leaning just as they would if they were swinging alone. Thus, it was quite a surprise (and perhaps a little confusing and disturbing) to me to find out that there was a sexual position called "the Butterfly" that involved one wrapping one's legs around another person.
Anyhow, the above is a very crude depiction of the butterfly position. While I am not an amazing artist, I know I can normally produce art much better than this. This is actually my concept rendition of something else I intended to draw, but hadn't yet gotten the opportunity to. Someday, I might have a better drawing of this pose. For now, though, you may enjoy something crude posted on a sexual discussion site, because I know how very uncommon that is (kidding, of course, with that last comment). Anyhow, as you can see with the butterfly position, it involves finding a surface that will raise the recipient off the ground sufficiently for the giver to have ready access to their pelvis with his pelvis. It looks so sexy in that picture, doesn't it? In this version of the pose, the recipient lays back on the surface and puts their feet on the floor. The penetrator (kinda like a terminator, but instead of terminating, they are penetrating) either stands or kneels between the recipient's legs (depends on how tall the surface is, but since the recipient's feet are on the floor here, we shall assume that they're kneeling, because I drew it that way, and my drawing is very beautiful). If the recipient's legs don't reach the floor for some reason, or if they are more comfortable with it, other props like chairs or something could be positioned to put their feet on, or yoga bricks or pillows or little smurfs that hold out their hands for it ... and if the penetrator needs to be elevated a little more, but not too much, then putting a few pillows under his knees might help too ... or smurf, whichever works.
This position is also rather nice because it allows more moving room to add clitoral stimulation on a woman quite easily which can help keep her nice and wet for a good long session of bumping her trunk!
I will note that there are several variations of this position, however, I have decided that it would be too time consuming to describe them all in one post, so, it is likely that we will return to variations regarding this pose at some time in the future. Also, this is an excellent pose for deeper penetration sex, if that is something you're really looking out for. Have fun when you give it a try!
