Sexy Vocabulary #3 - ClittyBoner!
It is all too often left to mystery how a woman's anatomy works when she is aroused - to the point that not only do guys not understand it - oftentimes girls don't understand it either! Men's anatomy is quite telling when they're aroused, but a woman's anatomy tends to be less so unless you know what signals to watch for and it is best to look when her pants are off.
On a related note, a few months ago a guy named hotcolddrink asked this question on yahoo answers:
How can I identify that a virgin girl on her way to organism when she is not nude?
Yes, it seems Mr. Drink mistook one word for another, but I forgave him and answered with this:
During the early phases of arousal, you're going to see a few things happen. In the first phase, the heart rate quickens, muslces become more tense, the skin gets a slight reddening, her nipples will become hard (you may or may not see this through her clothes) and her breasts will swell. These things are increased in intensity in the second phase and muscle spasms may begin to occur in the hands, feet and face. In phase three, the orgasm itself, involuntary muscle contractions occur, she may start panting and her breathing becomes uncontrollable, a 'sex flush' (a rash-like appearance to the skin) shows up, as well as a rapid release of sexual tension.
Ok, maybe my reaction to the mistaken word was somewhat bitchy - sorry about that. However, in my post, I didn't bother to describe other elements of female arousal and so today, inspired by Angelica White, who introduced me to the term 'CLITTYBONER,' to refer to one aspect of arousal in women, when her clit becomes erect (it gets hard, baby). While an erect clit is not nearly as problematic as an erect penis is for men (especially when giving a speech - there's a reason someone invented podiums and it wasn't really for putting papers on, *wink, wink*), since women's clits are much smaller and extend into the body some distance rather than having a significant external portion, some women can experience some discomfort for an inconveniently erect clit. Most of the time, though, the erect clit is protected by the mons (the fleshy part at the top of the vulva) and, to an extent, the labia. As arousal progresses, though, the clit will retract and become covered by the clitoral hood (the clit comes with a built-in blankie). Even then, though, along with the clit swelling up, the labia will redden and pull open somewhat during arousal as the inner two thirds of the vagina expand and lengthen and, of course, the vagina self-lubricates (we like it wet).
