The Sex Tech

Firstly, let me say I'm not going to claim that I know everything about dating and people. Also, anyone who claims to know everything about dating and people is a liar. I also dislike being considered an expert. Despite knowing a hell of a lot and having studied a hell of a lot to be able to write all that I do on SexTech, I dislike how people can know so very little and slap the term 'expert' (or in the case of my chosen expertise, 'sexpert') onto themselves without anything in the form of credentials or valid endorsements to back up their claims. I've seen way too many alleged sexperts who basically knew nothing and relied on dying or failed porn careers and similar to sell their 'sexpert' advice. Thus, others call me a 'sexpert' only for lack of a better term and at the same time, I dislike it based on guilt by association. This is actually why I've been deemed The Sex Tech, a term someone bestowed upon me after I explained why I refer to myself as a "Sexual Information and Rights Activist." Since the science of sexology is so young, it is tough to actually quantify this term and basically, I'm defining it as I go.

I'm creating this new section to essentially outline where other alleged experts go wrong. This is all about those people who claim that they are experts in something related to courtship and sex who seem to really be just lying to people or misleading them. I intend to use this section to explain who they are, what it is they are claiming that is wrong and why it is wrong. I also hope to use this section to educate people on how to detect that misleading advice and to get the advice they really need. The term "N-expert" is just a term I made up a moment ago to refer to the people who give out this bad advice.